So you finally turned on the charm full blast and invited Crush for a casual coffee date. The date went well, and ended good. There was no awkwardness whatsoever when you parted at the end of the evening. In fact, things were really friendly – and continued to be so for a few days afterwards. And then…
Nada. He seems to have vanished into thin air. You never see him again…and when he finally does appear, it’s almost as if the date didn’t happen at all. All you get is an imperceptible nod of acknowledgment…if you’re lucky. There are times when you’re not sure if he just didn’t see you or if he purposely ignored you. You wondered what happened. What went wrong? The date went fine, even well actually. Is he suddenly shy? Did he realize that you’re not his type after all and doesn’t know how to act now? Whatever it is, there’s really got to be something behind his actions. But everything he does speaks of one thing – COWARDICE! What do you do now?
Ignore him back and cut all connections – ASAP! Make him sweat, not yourself! Don’t change your routines and act like nothing happened too. He no longer exists, except in the periphery. He’s just another one of the building people, no one in particular. If he deigns to greet you, then by all means greet back, but merely dispense a generic, ordinary greeting. A blow hot, blow cold person like him deserves nothing more.
BUT, if after all these you can’t resist and still find him cute then…still do the steps above, hehe. But when he DOES give you a nice greeting, give him a nice one too. After all, there might still be a glimmer of hope. You wouldn’t really want to totally lose a catch, would you? Tit for tat’s the name of the game now.
- Gypsy Vixen
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